Author of “The Complete Guide to Happiness for Gay Men…” Dead from Suicide

 WAKE UP CALL

This hits the nail on the head and drives home the very reason why this site spawned, mental health issues hiding behind the mask of a beautiful body. Dying young and beautiful because of a hidden mental illness is unacceptable. The stigma and shame that is attached to mental illnesses overrides the education and knowledge of those knee deep in the illness themselves. “Bob Bergeron, a handsome, successful, intelligent, well-liked, physically fit gay New Yorker committed suicide recently. Ironically, and sadly, the psychotherapist was about to publish The Right Side of Forty: The Complete Guide to Happiness for Gay Men at Midlife and Beyond.”

“Colleague and associate Christopher Murray eulogizes Bob in a provocative article that touches on the complexity of why people commit suicide and why (in particular) gay men who might appear to be doing well may not be, not really. Check it out here.” (boyculture)

Men’s Mental Health: Depression- Reduce Unnecessary Stigma Attached to It

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Depression is a hot topic in the media, which helps reduce the unnecessary stigma attached to it. The more we talk about depression, the more we will see it as part of being human.

Just about all of us will suffer an episode of depression during our lifetime. For some it is a clinical, deep-rooted long-lasting melancholy and for others it lasts a few days or weeks.

There is no research evidence showing gay men suffer depression any more than members of the general community. However, we do know that being a gay man today can be very tough on the human psyche, when competing for attention in the demanding homosexual landscape of fashion, fitness, obtaining sex and the clubbing environment. Continue reading