Mindful Eating as Food for Thought: Put Down that Shovel, Pick Up a Fork!

Yikes! My first move will be to put down the shovel and pick up a fork.

TRY this: place a forkful of food in your mouth. It doesn’t matter what the food is, but make it something you love — let’s say it’s that first nibble from three hot, fragrant, perfectly cooked ravioli.

Now comes the hard part. Put the fork down. This could be a lot more challenging than you imagine, because that first bite was very good and another immediately beckons. You’re hungry.

Today’s experiment in eating, however, involves becoming aware of that reflexive urge to plow through your meal like Cookie Monster on a shortbread bender. Resist it. Leave the fork on the table. Chew slowly. Stop talking. Tune in to the texture of the pasta, the flavor of the cheese, the bright color of the sauce in the bowl, the aroma of the rising steam.

Continue this way throughout the course of a meal, and you’ll experience the third-eye-opening pleasures and frustrations of a practice known as mindful eating. Continue reading

Touchstones: A Book of Daily Meditations for Men

Doesn’t it bug the shit out of you when you are completely stressing out  about a relevant, important matter in your life, palms sweaty, tense neck, trembling fingers and some says to you, “Just relax.” Hate to tell you, but it’s true. Grab this book and take your time to read it, absorb it, even if it’s paragraph by paragraph on the old crapper. Peace of mind may be simpler than you think and achievable. Fuck that was deep.

 

Overview

Don’t let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was.
R.L. Evans

“One cannot always be a hero, but one can always be a man,” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe tells us, but sometimes simply being a man can be a mighty struggle. Take heart from this companionable book of daily meditations, a year’s worth of friendly words to cheer you on your way.

Speaking straight to men who are striving for serenity or trying to maintain emotionally and spiritually balanced lives, these daily touchstones begin with quotations from sources as varied as William Shakespeare, Wendell Berry, Michael Spinks, and Woody Allen and conclude with affirmations that underscore the lessons of intimacy, integrity and spirituality. They explore the masculine role of lover or spouse, father or friend and, like a helping hand extended, case the daily strain of making a man’s way.

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