The Gay Male Couple’s Guide to Non-Monogamy

By Daniel Vaillancourt

 

Mikey Rox and Everett Earl Morrow, both now 30, were committed to monogamy when they met and fell in love. That was five years ago. “After a couple instances of infidelity to which we both confessed, we decided it’s not realistic to expect either of us to never hook up with anyone else ever again,” says Rox, principal of Paper Rox Scissors Copy and Creative in Manhattan. The legally married couple has had an open relationship for the last two years. “Who wouldn’t want to be allowed to hook up with other guys and have their husband be OK with it?” he asks. “Isn’t that what most men dream of, and isn’t the limitation of sex with one partner in a marriage the reason why so many people cheat?” Adds Morrow, “As two men, sex isn’t particularly emotional for either of us. That enables us to separate our love for one another from the occasional physical attraction we may have for another guy.”

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Frugal Dad Infographic Asks: Are You Better Than the Average Man?

We are all an intertwined cob web of mental and physical health, finances, job, relationships and much more. Finances are one part that has the potential in causing harm to all components of your health, need not  be left out of our wellness programs. Enders

I probably could have told you that American men were in bad shape (both financially and physically) but I didn’t realize just how bad until now. The average guy has almost $15k in debt and only $3k in savings, and 16% of guys rarely pay off their credit card bills. If this isn’t why Frugal Dad was founded back in 2007, then I don’t know what is.

But my blog has always been about how to improve with a few simple steps, and this graphic is no different. I’m excited about this one – it’s useful in looking at the average American guy, and it gives sound advice for improving your finances and getting active. Enjoy!

Love, Frugal Dad

The 10 Best Cities For Men: Employment to Air quality to Diabetes and More

And the winner is, (drum roll please), Burlington, VT. There are many on the list that wouldn’t first pop into your mind, but the list is derived from a few very reliable sources: Bureau of Labor Statistics, the CDC and the FBI.

Every year, Men’s Health ranks 100 cities in order from best to worst for men, based on stats from the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the CDC and the FBI on 35 different criteria, ranging from employment to air quality to diabetes and more.

Below are the 10 cities that ranked the highest. Click over to Men’s Health for the entire list, as well as the 10 worst cities for men.

1. Burlington, VT

2. Madison, WI

 

3. Plano, TX

4. San Jose, CA

5. Boise, ID

 

For entire list go to www.huffingtonpost.com

The Omni Club of Fort Myers Florida Hosts Free Men’s Health Presentation

The Omni Club is hosting a Men’s Health Seminar on Saturday, January 14th at 10:30 a.m. at the gym for members and non-members alike.

The seminar is focused on prostate and related health, particularly pertaining to men, and will include a presentation by one of Southwest Florida’s leading Urologists, Dr. Steven A. Harrison with Florida Urology Physicians.

There will be an open forum discussion after the presentation with Dr. Harrison to answer questions on the topics discussed. This educational health seminar is complimentary and open to members and non-members. Light snacks and refreshments will be served. Registration is required and can be completed by calling Carrie Strongin at (239) 931-6664 or emailing Carrie.omni@gmail.com. Continue reading

Rectal Douching and Enema Survey

Giggling is aloud. We take ourselves way to seriously. Rectal douching sounds hilarious, laugh it out. Laughing is good for you. Just be mindful that this is a serious study and answering honestly is very helpful.

The International Rectal Microbicide Advocates (IRMA) and researchers at the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) School of Public Health are conducting a brief survey to better understand the types of products people use rectally for anal sex including lubricants and enemas or douches.

They are trying to gain a better understanding of rectal practices and behaviors that may affect the risk for sexually transmitted infections among people who practice anal intercourse. LifeLube hopes you will fill out this brief anonymous survey – whether you douche or not.

Survey is open to men, women, and transgendered individuals and is avaialble in English, Spanish, French, Chinese and Russian.

Please take the survey, and share the link with friends and colleagues.